Being in the pickup industry, i’m sure you’re aware of the magnetic pull such men have when embodying the dark triad traits. Look only so far as Ted Bundy, or Marilyn Manson aswell as the several studies out there that prove dark triad is the pinnacle of top level attraction.
As i started my journey in pickup i was a shy, nervous, ‘nice guy’, who had zero sexual appeal. Over time, i worked hard on myself and through pickup i changed my behaviors and personality to become more attractive to women, aswell as myself.
Pickup and game teaches you to become more dark triad. There’s nothing wrong with that. And for alot of ‘nice guys’ like myself, it’s what you need have any hope in the sexual market place. Think of it like the spice to your steak. If you don’t have any spice it’s bland. Too much spice and it kills the taste. With just the right amount it works well. They key being balance.
I’ve recently had the opportunity to progress further into the dark triad. I’m talking high-level pimp game. It was a serious moral dilemma i was facing.
Knowing that if i went down that route it would make me even more magnetizing to women to a chemically dangerous degree. Nothing wrong with that as long as i get the girl right?
Wrong. There is a price to pay for going so far on the spectrum. I think it’s important for everyone to know the risks involved going forward into pickup incase they decide it’s not for them.
If you’re too far down the line of bad boy will be an INCREDIBLY difficult task to re-wire and program yourself back to a ‘normal’ baseline. So you have to be aware of what you’re getting into.
I’ll preface by saying whatever strategy you choose, i have no problem against. I have nothing against an extremely dominant male who fully embodies dark triad traits , he will reap the benefits but will pay a cost.
This cost is that you may just end up bitter, unhappy, externally-validated, place a great important on manipluation, exploitation and a grand ego.
So what are you to do? Well as newtons 3rd law states
“for every action there is an equal an opposite reaction”
In this case being, “the light triad”.
Now i draw you back to my own pickup journey. I was developing these dark triad traits which were helping me get better results, but they were eating up parts of your soul. I would become difficult around friends, place a great important of entitlement about myself and always wants things going my own way.
On a deep fundamental level i was unhappy. Even though carrying on mean’t i could get to the highest level of game, pimp-game, i didn’t want to pay the trade-off of my soul. So am i doomed? It was then i found out about the light triad.
A shift in focus. Working on myself for myself, and revelling in fullfiling my own purpose and desires. Embodying the healthy traits of the dark triad. The golden sweet spot being the mix between the bad boy and the nice guy.
And discovering that the light triad of game at it’s highest level is equal if not better than the dark triad. Men who have real value, like Steve Jobs or a top premier league footballer, do you think they need to be dark triad? No, they have real value.
This is why i believe the ultimate level of game is to become this Bright Triad. A mixture of the healthy dark triad traits, combined with the light triad. And the results being you don’t even loose any of the girls because if women like you they like you.
Women want a powerful men, either way. If you are powerful and good, they will tell you how in awe they are of you for your moral power; if you are powerful and wicked, they will tell you how in awe they are of your cutthroat might.
You can still have the highest level of and get the same girls, but still have your soul intact, feeling good. That sounds like a better option to me.
I think alot of guys get into this thinking they have to become, Marilyn Manson or become “insert pua here” to get the girls he’s desires. That’s not the case at all. You still need the attractive traits of the dark triad don’t get me wrong, but you don’t have to live in the darkness for ever.
I know few genuine dark triad men, whether they are developed or naturally like that. They don’t seem ‘happy’, they aren’t pleasant to hang around with, and it leads to the conclusion that – there are more important things in life than women and money.
This is coming from someone who whenever that was said to me i, would revolt. Women were the most important thing for me, i was needy and desperate. And if you said to me i’d do literally anything to get that handled.
If you think women are the most important thing, and it’s about getting thousands of lays and dying a bachelor on your own, with no friends or family around you, then live that life. But if you ever get to 60 and realize you lived a life of a mistake, realize it would be pretty hard to change.
I will also say that this dark triad might work in the short term but in the long term the girls always find out, and definitely wouldn’t see it as anything more than one time thing.
The light triad sets you up better in the long term, becoming the sort of man that a woman wants to be with, rather than merely the temporary persona of such a man.